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Fencer Behavior: There is a lot of time and money invested in attending a fencing competition. Sometimes a parent needs to step in and guide their fencer away from playing with their friends before and during the actual competition. After the final bouts, if your child makes it that far, the merriment can begin.
Some fencers require more concentration and focus before and during the actual fencing than others. Gently help your kid keep their focus. Have them fence with someone during the long intervals between pools and DE’s to keep their mind on what they are doing. Listening to music and quiet conversation are also good ways to pass the time. Let your kids be but also keep an eye on them. Sometimes it takes an ogre parent around to get kids out of a situation they cannot quite handle on their own. Be that ogre!
Many kids fence out of their age groups, so they know kids in all of the age groups. Sometimes the friends will come over when the fencer is supposed to be fencing, and while not meaning to be inconsiderate, will totally distract the fencer. If you see this happening gently tell the other fencer to go elsewhere. If the gentle persuasion does not work, be a monster and tell them to come back later. Be a shield for your kids and the kids you know well and welcome the help, find ways to help them attain their best performance.
Traveling: This is a big issue.
If you are competing with younger kids, (under 18) traveling can be a real trial. There is always pressure for the kids to travel with the team, not with the parent. Some clubs make it seem like parents are not welcome.
BEWARE!
Remember, you are the child’s parent and you are in control. You know what is best for your kid. Do not relinquish your good sense due to pressure from coaches and team managers.
Fencing meets can be a dangerous place, especially for a younger fencer who is fencing above their age level. There are kids and hormones flowing through events like the Junior World Cups. Kids have hotel rooms and keys. Poorly chaperoned kids can be a recipe for disaster. It only takes a moment for a lifetime mistake to happen.
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