debergerac@ziplip.com (Phillip Inoy) wrote
> Truth be told, he is usually amazingly accurate with it; though it
> stings from time to time.
"Usually" is not always. You did not say, in this or your original
post on the topic, that this was the first time he's done this. To
me, this sounds like something very similar has happened from him in
the past.
From your original post:
"Fortunately in my case I was not injured, but my friend who I can
assure you is quite awesome with this weapon was a bit off form tonite
and I was hit with the flat of the blade in the neck and across the
back of the head a total of 3-4 times in a bout. 2 more times in the
next.
However, it hurt so badly that I don't want it to happen again, nor do
I want to approach him about it; I don't want him to feel awkward when
he fences me...but it did hurt badly enough that I don't want it to
happen again."
So this happened to you at least 6 times in *one* night. He *should*
feel awkward about this. If it's happened to you, I'd be willing to
bet that it's happened to other people too.
> This whole string was to be see as a forum on how to adequately and
> within USFA/FIE rules protect oneself with various pieces of
> equipment. I don't want to retaliate against Mr. Flickster...he's a
> CLOSE friend which makes it tough to approach him about it. Also, I'm
> a bit too Confucian in my beliefs to broach it with him. I just wanted
> to quietly find a way to armor myself so that he could continue to
> fence at his best...and in the way he is most comfortable fencing
> whilst protecting myself. Then if he saw to what lengths I was going
> to then he'd might feel obliged to tone it down a bit.
He's such a close friend that you can't talk to him when he's doing
something dangerous, both to you and potentially others? Will you
wait until he's done this to somebody else and drawn blood, then go up
to them and say, "You know, he's *usually* pretty good at this."?
Small comfort for the person who's injured.
The thing is, he's not fencing at his best. He is repeatedly causing
harm with something he has direct control over.
The only way he's going to know that he needs to tone down his fencing
is if you say something to him directly. Otherwise all your
preparation will be useless if the action continues. The only thing
that happens will be that you don't get hurt.
Chris "ObeeKris" Lisy