okay, this is what i picked up from the people i associate with: if you really want to help soweto, with very few exceptions, diamonds, rubies, and saphires should not be a girls best friend. those people work in mines to dig out this stuff and then they sell it to big wheels elsewhere in the world. diamonds were only supposed to be a token of affection given for engagements, and not everyone wanted a diamond. many girls opted for a little pearl or some other token. we've become a bit greedy and others suffer; by the way I saw a bunch of african buddhists in japan this past trip. they looked absolutely beautful, i could not believe it! they were great. I feel a little sad to be moving, but that's the way it is. I was a stranger in a strange land, and no-one trusted me.
