I've heard that around here they call it "buckeyed"? Someone correct me? But if you're smeared 0-5 or 0-15 then you've been buckeyed. Or maybe it was just on the T-shirts that John Monahan used to pass out.
I just used the term "kicked their/my ***."
I will agree with Mr. Epee from way earlier that in most cases I'd rank quality of bouting over coaching. Then again, I'm not at a point where I can afford coaching.
As a beginner I'd do my best to get the better guys to fence me, but I was mostly ignored or they would fence me to five, whoop my *** and tell me to watch my distance. There was a lot I had to figure out on my own.
I figured that eventually, if I became good enough they'd fence me more. So drill, train, show up to every practice and go to plenty of tournaments if you can afford all of that time and money. If you can't the them's the breaks and life goes on.
Now, at another club I'm one of the better fencers. There are maybe two people that I look forward to fencing that seriously challenge me and I will spend most of my time bouting them, but like counterattack above me I'll bout the less-experinced and try to tell them more than "watch your distance."
I don't have a problem with competative fencers changing clubs simply because they need more of a challenge. If they want to get better then that's fine. They don't have to be charitable to anyone but themselves if they feel like it.
Edit: Smallish club and want to have the lesser fencers fence the big boys more? Have a night where you play "King of the Hill" every other week or so.