Need some chick advice...

[D+F+P=Hadouken!]

ok, how many days should I put between dates?

[Mr Epee]

ok, how many days should I put between dates?

more please.

[Pauli]

all depends on how your first date was......

[Maeve_Mari]

ok, how many days should I put between dates?

You should always call the next day to say that you had a nice time. It's an act akin to writing a thank-you note. You dont have to ask her out again right away, but a call of aknowledgement will take away any apprehension or question on her part and will also give you a good read of her feelings also.

After than, your schedule determines the "number of days" between dates. Since you are 14 years old, I can't imagine that anything less than a week would even be appropriate. And since you are fencing and need to stay focused on your development, only seeing someone once or twice a month is more than sufficient.

[Pauli]

You should always call the next day to say that you had a nice time. It's an act akin to writing a thank-you note. You dont have to ask her out again right away, but a call of aknowledgement will take away any apprehension or question on her part and will also give you a good read of her feelings were also.

After than, your schedule determines the "number of days" between dates. Since you are 14 years old, I can't imagine that anything less than a week would even be appropriate. And since you are fencing and need to stay focused on your development, only seeing someone once or twice a month is more than sufficient.

now this is what I call a professional advise you should REALLY take to heart!!

[Victor]

ok, how many days should I put between dates?

more please.

Sounds like Mr. Epee didn't like your first date, DFP. Where did you take him?

[Soldier]

You should always call the next day to say that you had a nice time. It's an act akin to writing a thank-you note. You dont have to ask her out again right away, but a call of aknowledgement will take away any apprehension or question on her part and will also give you a good read of her feelings also.

After than, your schedule determines the "number of days" between dates. Since you are 14 years old, I can't imagine that anything less than a week would even be appropriate. And since you are fencing and need to stay focused on your development, only seeing someone once or twice a month is more than sufficient.

Of course, how are you defining a date?

Considering your age, I'm going to guess this is somebody you know probably from school - I wouldn't worry about it too much, then, since you're already going to be seeing her socially on a regular basis. Specific dates...well, I can't imagine riding in your mom's minivan would be that romantic.

Care to fill in some of the details here?

[Bayou Bum]

For the best chick advice, ask Soldier. I don't think chickens like to eat dates. I think they prefer corn. Try corn and let me know if that helps.
Bum

[howtobrew]

Also, since you are relatively new at dating, let me add:

"Gentlemen never kiss and tell." It doesn't matter if it was a bad date, or a great date, never give intimate details. Other guys will ask, or you may want to share, but listen to the voice of experience: Don't. Indiscretion always comes back to bite you in the ***.

[Katman]

Forty days and nights. Just to be on the safe side, ya know.

[keith]

and remember that profound discretion often results in people imagining all the things you might have done and hence greatly improving your standing as an absolute stud.

[InweCiryatan]

Of course, how are you defining a date?

Considering your age, I'm going to guess this is somebody you know probably from school - I wouldn't worry about it too much, then, since you're already going to be seeing her socially on a regular basis. Specific dates...well, I can't imagine riding in your mom's minivan would be that romantic.

Care to fill in some of the details here?

I believe D+F+P=Hadouken! is homeschooled, so seeing his girlfriend on a regular basis is slightly harder than usual. That's why a casual date is fine once or twice a week, though big dates should be rarer, 2 or 3 times a month. (they're more special that way.)

Also, since you are relatively new at dating, let me add:

"Gentlemen never kiss and tell." It doesn't matter if it was a bad date, or a great date, never give intimate details. Other guys will ask, or you may want to share, but listen to the voice of experience: Don't. Indiscretion always comes back to bite you in the ***.

Great advice. Nothing is worse than seeing someone and then finding out he gave his buddies the play-by-play afterward.

[ReverseLunge]

You should always call the next day to say that you had a nice time. It's an act akin to writing a thank-you note. You dont have to ask her out again right away, but a call of aknowledgement will take away any apprehension or question on her part and will also give you a good read of her feelings also.

After than, your schedule determines the "number of days" between dates. Since you are 14 years old, I can't imagine that anything less than a week would even be appropriate. And since you are fencing and need to stay focused on your development, only seeing someone once or twice a month is more than sufficient.

You give advice as though he is dating your daughter or something. I thought you were a lesbian.

Hey DFP, see her as much as you can and make out and feel her out as much as you can. You might not be ready to have sex with her yet but atleast get to 3rd base. Thats what it's all about at your age man!

Don't take the stupid advice here. You should be honest and see eachother as much as you feel like it.

[ReverseLunge]

Of course, how are you defining a date?

Considering your age, I'm going to guess this is somebody you know probably from school - I wouldn't worry about it too much, then, since you're already going to be seeing her socially on a regular basis. Specific dates...well, I can't imagine riding in your mom's minivan would be that romantic.

Care to fill in some of the details here?

Well I can imagine what you do on a date man. You probably bring along your Bible and interrogate her on her Christian knowledge. Then you probably go for ice-cream and sit there with both your hand cupped over your penis area.

[rmyounis]

The best advice: Don't even think about girls until your heart is a callused, impenetrable stone

Or wait, thats how your heart GETS that way

[Maeve_Mari]

Of course, how are you defining a date?

Considering your age, I'm going to guess this is somebody you know probably from school - I wouldn't worry about it too much, then, since you're already going to be seeing her socially on a regular basis. Specific dates...well, I can't imagine riding in your mom's minivan would be that romantic.

Care to fill in some of the details here?

I was thinking she was someone he met while fencing - at his club or at a tourney. Homeschooling makes meager grounds for date trolling.

Speaking of trolls... what an ***.

[Soldier]

I was thinking she was someone he met while fencing - at his club or at a tourney.

That was my second guess.

Homeschooling makes meager grounds for date trolling.

Beats troll dating...

Speaking of trolls... what an ***.

[noodle]

not by much...

[Bayou Bum]

Seriously DFP,
You went to the festival Saturday and a real date on Sunday. She must like you, so ask her out this weekend. During school, weekends are good. This summer, spend every day together. Have fun.
Will you be at sectionals?
Bum

[noodle]

maybe you should bring her to sectionals so i can mess with you both