[quote=D'Artag-NOT]There have been a number of threads lately about bad sportsmanship--what it is, who's most guilty of it, yadda, yadda, yadda. So now . . .
Let's hear it for the good guys!
Post your stories--the gracious winner--the valiant loser--the fencer who loaned you a body cord so you could fence that crucial bout--the encouraging spectator--the steady, dependable clubmate.
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this one is cruel and something wierd - just too unbelievable...
previous weekend I fenced with refereeing old fencer (not age just they have been fencing a long time)
my foil broke and I was forced to fence with a french grip
they said the rule had changed and forced me to fence without moving my hand along the grip between fence and halt
I was nearly warned
I have been out of competitive fencing for 5 years and I did not realise
they had been away from the sport a while too as they were so adamant they
had been told the rule had changed
I fenced the next weekned in a competition and when my opponent moved his hand along the grip (as I had done the previous weekend) I was pretty upset as according to what I had BEEN TOLD this was cheating
I clarified with the referee after the bout that he had been watching for movement of the hand ( as I told him three times to watch my opponents hand) during an action whereas I told him I had been told the rule had changed and I had been going on about any hand movement
Nothing was said to me at that competions (round 2 of a team comp... foil of course..).
I was pretty upset re the rule as I did not know where I stood...
so I tried to query it with a few people (my state assoc. for one..) and was told the rule hadn't chnaged and I was backstabbing the person (by another person on the forum) - this pretty much upset me so i emailed him an apology as I am not that low nor stupid to accuse someone of cheating.
this is the email I got back (must be me?!)
this was my email to him:
> sorry I did not realise I had upset you over that bout and Tom (I guess)
> > - my apologies if I had as not offence was intended - I had been wrongly
> > advised of a rule change at he last teams match and warned about the
> > hand when fencing for that reason.
> >
> > I have now clarified with them that they were incorrect and had been
> > misinformed themselves.
> >
> > Sorry if you think I was trying to pick on you in any way and I must
> > admit i was pretty shocked that I could be interpreted as doing so when
> > I was trying to find out what the rule is so I don't make a fool of
> > myself again - but I am sorry if you feel this is any way so.
>
> > I feel quite stupid giving Tom a hard time (during the bout) over the
> > hand when you weren't changing your hand position during the action but
> > out of the action which I had been told was also wrong...
> >
> > Pls pass on my apologies to Tom as it appears offence may have ben given by the response I received.
I got this reply:
Albert,
>
> You accused me of cheating after the bout between us.
>
> You posted several articles lefted without acknowlegment from the web on
> the yahoo group that implied that the refereeing of Tom and myself was
> defective.
>
> I do not speak for Tom. For myself, I was offended.
>
> If you were not trying to imply the refereeing was defective then I fail
> to see your point.
>
> Apology accepted if it does not happen again.
>
> If I ever see anything written by you, like I saw today on the AFF web
> site regarding refereeing, I will ask Fencing SA to revoke your
> affiliation. They of course will probably ignore me, but I find it
> offensive that you seek to broadcast the inadequacies of Fencing in
> South Australia rather than seek to fix them through the proper channels.
>
> You should think before you write!
>
> Regards,
>
> Adrian (the bloody angry)
wow...
I was impressed, actually stunned rigid... but my reputation for being asking questions got me in trouble again I guess...
my other posts (note they were quite a way before and the replies were only recenty .. also of interest I guess... scared the beejezuz out of me..)
http://www.ausfencing.org/modules.ph...ums&file=index
...
Now how does one fence at all with this floating around in the back of your head?
sorry to bring this up I was reading this post and "blurted" this garbage out again ... having just posted replies to the accusations against me (I am the evil one I guess...lol..)
Anyway makes interesting reading I suppose and serves as a warning to others (hmmm...)